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How to Succeed With Hot Asian Girls - Seduction Secrets

If you're especially attracted to hot Asian girls, I can certainly understand. I'm a huge fan of hot Asian girls and have dated a wide variety -- including Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Filipina, Indonesian and Thai girls.

There are many reasons why Asian women make us feel a powerful attraction, and why they can be ideal partners for a guy like yourself. But if you're to make these girls feel attracted to YOU, you've got to understand what makes them "tick." So here are ten tips that will help you make the right first impression on hot Asian girls, and move things towards romance...

1. You should understand that the term Read More is very broad and contains a lot of sub-categories. Most Western guys think the "Asian women" label refers only to Japanese or Chinese women. The term Asian actually includes over include 40 different nationalities and ethnic groups. There are many variations in the Philippines alone, where there's been a lot of mixing of different cultures over the generations. (For example, some filipinas you meet will have more of a "Latina" look due to the Spanish influence, while others have a more "oriental" look due to the Chinese influence.)

If you aren't certain where an Asian woman is from originally, don't try to guess. This could make you seem ignorant, or even worse, you might offend her. Instead, you can say to her, "you have a very unique look, where are your parents from?"

Also, on this subject, you should never mention to her that you've dated other Asian women before. This is not going to make her feel like you "understand" her. Actually, there's a good chance that she will feel resentful. She needs to feel that she is unique and special to you. If she gets the sense that you're only into her because of her race, you can forget about hooking up with her.

2. The stereotype that Asian women are meek and submissive is generally false, however Asian women do want a masculine man -- one who can play the role of the provider and protector. This is a big reason why so many Western men -- who live in "feminized" cultures where women want to wear the pants -- find Asian women to be so alluring. They are purely feminine, and desire a man who exudes masculinity.

This means that with hot Asian girls, you can't be co-dependent or clingy. Asian men don't behave this way and if you do, it's going to turn off Asian women. They want to feel SAFE with a man who is a decision-maker and protector, and who is in control of his emotions. Asian women won't feel comfortable with a guy who is needy, overly sensitive, and complains about his problems.

3. Be a gentleman with a bit of a "bad boy" edge. Cool Hollywood movie stars are worshipped in Asia -- the guys who are strong, masculine and can take care of business, but have a boyish charm and a softer side. Think about the onscreen personalities of Harrison Ford, Keanu Reeves, Leonardo Dicaprio, Matt Damon, Brad Pitt, and George Clooney. (All of them are revered in Asia.) You must be confident and emotionally stable. Asian women are turned off by insecure, angry or jealous men.

4. You must be intelligent and preferably well-educated, since Asians put a high value on education and wisdom. Also, have various passions and pursuits that you can share with her. You want her to get the sense that she will become a better, more knowledgeable and well-rounded person by being with you.

5. Always behave yourself in public. Guys who are loud, rude, or "show off" in public aren't going to get anywhere with hot Asian girls. They also appreciate proper manners, such as helping them to remove their coat, or pulling out their chair and helping them to sit down in a restaurant.

6. Demonstrate some familiarity with her country, its culture, and her religion. Having an appreciation for her native cuisine is also very helpful. If she is Westernized, she probably eats Western food, generally--but when she's with her family, they surely still cook their favorite exotic dishes. Learning to cook one of her favorite ethnic meals for her will score you big points.

7. A tip for all you guys who are communicating over the Internet with women from Asian countries: get her to chat with you on a webcam as soon as possible. There are a ton of girls on the Asian dating sites who are looking to find a foreign boyfriend, which is great, but there are a lot of games being played. Some women will post misleading pictures in their profile, or in some cases they'll use a picture of another person entirely. If she has an excuse why she can't appear on webcam, you can assume she's trying to hide something. Every scene I've visited in Asia, from the big cities to the poor provinces, now has Internet cafes everywhere -- and if the computer she's using doesn't have a webcam, there is surely one down the street.

8. You cannot come across as a player, a playboy, or a guy who isn't interested in the possibility of a serious relationship. When you're getting to know an Asian women, she has to know that you have the capacity to be serious and committed. They're thinking of their future, and for a lot of Asian women their dream future involves having a half-Caucasian child. You don't need to talk about your desire to get married on the first date, but you can mention how you're interested in this someday.

9. Asian women will be impressed if you own some of the latest high tech gadgets -- a cool phone, mp3 player, digital camera, and so on. Asian guys tend to be really up on this stuff. And it also helps for you to be literate with computers, because to an educated Asian women, this is a sign that you are a smart, upwardly mobile person.

10. My final tip on succeeding with Asian women: you must understand that Asian women have very strong ties to their family. In some Asian cultures the woman is expected to support the rest of the family, even though they're perfectly capable of making their own money. Even though you might be tempted to, never tell her to grow up and be independent and turn her back on her family. This will only drive a wedge between you and her.